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Letter: New Westies have lost their compassion

Are apathy and shame really the main ways we respond to each other?
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Have New Westminster residents lost their sense of compassion that makes this city a community? This letter writer says it's time to hear each other again.

Editor:

What can a community do to manage and navigate the times we are currently living in? We have worked our way through this pandemic, the cost of nearly everything has risen drastically, we are witnessing multiple wars, housing has become unaffordable, and the climate continues to deteriorate more each year. It seems like the most logical answer to this question is ... survive. At a bare minimum ... survive.

I won’t spend any time denying that our society, and even our community, has become fractured and divided. Our opinions continue to empower us to keep each other at arm’s length, and shame each other for our different perspectives. Our reactions quickly escalate to anger when someone’s opinion does not align with our own. The evidence of this can be found on Reddit (r/NewWest) or Facebook (New Westies are the Besties!).

Where is our compassion for each other? Without compassion we don’t hear each other. It becomes about what someone’s belief is, rather than why that is their belief. It is possible to fundamentally disagree on nearly everything, yet show compassion for where your neighbour is coming from. Which in turn, can mean your neighbour listens to you, and you, in turn, listen to them.

I truly hope it goes without saying that there is no space for sexism, racism and homophobia. I am in no way advocating for seeing bigotry from someone else’s perspective. What I am saying is that your diverse opinions and beliefs can be valued within a community that has compassion towards one another, and this diversity can only serve to make that community better. Currently, apathy and shame are the prominent ways we respond to each other.

What can a community do? It can act like one.

Shawn Sorensen